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Research indicates that there is a huge range in responsiveness (frequency with which we orgasm) for both sexes that defines normal. Even extreme frequencies can be completely normal for the individuals that have them. Yet orgasm is referred to...

Reproduction involves more than just intercourse

Sexuality is about reproduction. Human reproduction involves much more than intercourse. The distinct male and female roles are apparent from nature. The female produces...

The influence of religious beliefs on sexuality

Each culture has its own set of values. Some people consider these beliefs to be more important than others. While we are children, our...

At puberty girls develop a child-bearing capacity

To be motivated to care for children, women need certain characteristics. Foremost, they need to be less driven than men are about following their...

Young women tend to focus on their attractiveness

Girls from the age of 15 or so start to talk of the man they might marry one day and the children they hope...

Men cannot accept that women are unresponsive

Consent would not be an issue if intercourse caused female orgasm. The idea that women need a loving partner to enjoy sex, is clear...

Intercourse is a territorial act of male dominance

In a society where men and women raise families together, intercourse is presented as a lovemaking act. But originally, mating is clearly an act...

Sex without consent is rape regardless of intent

Most men most of the time respect the fact that they only obtain intercourse from a woman when she is amenable. If a man...

Sexual scenarios tend to be biased in men’s favour

Men are much less inclined to consider consequences than women in general. Men don’t necessarily feel that a woman’s pregnancy has anything to do...

Men’s sexual satisfaction relies on having a lover

Males of all species have an instinct to mate that females do not have. A man’s sex drive to engage in intercourse involves both...

Sexual attraction & commitment to a relationship

Especially in the early days of the relationship we can feel an electric thrill from touching, hearing or seeing our lover. We have a...

How we know that the vagina is not a sex organ

Orgasm is a primitive and fundamental response because male orgasm (as the trigger for ejaculation) is essential for human reproduction. The male response involves...

The ability to see a partner as a sex object

Unlike emotional attachments, arousal is not caused by a specific person or by a relationship. Arousal relies on being able to see a person,...

Differences between men and women’s responses

When a man walks down the street with a woman on his arm, he is proud that others may assume that he has a...

How anyone achieves orgasm when they are alone

Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation. Our mind’s ability to respond to erotic scenarios (both real and imagined)...

Women only orgasm when alone not with a lover

Men’s drive to penetrate inherently involves another person. But women do not have this hormonal drive that men have. So women have not evolved...

Understanding a man’s need for erotic turn-ons

For most people, sexual activity both alone or with a lover is a private affair. We rarely see other people engaging in sexual activity....

Women fake orgasm to reassure men’s sexual ego

Kinsey’s research revealed that some women orgasm by masturbating alone. Previously no one had any idea that women might be capable of orgasm at...

The role of relationship therapists & counsellors

Adults are embarrassed about sex because of their emotional insecurities. Our emotional needs include a need to impress, a need to belong and a...

The misunderstandings behind sexual dysfunction

True sexual dysfunctions are very rare. The word dysfunction implies that something is not working properly. In order to define dysfunction, we must first...

Sexual techniques that may pleasure a man

Men hope for a lover who contributes enthusiastically to the couple’s intimate time together: sharing fantasies, adventurous sex play and affection. A woman can...

A man wants a partner to make love to his penis

A contributing factor to the longevity of heterosexual relationships is that some men (perhaps the majority) look for an emotional connection. They are...

Women have varying degrees of sexual willingness

Human beings are sociable animals. Most of us want to be accepted in our social group. We want to share experiences. We often enjoy...