Saturday, September 21, 2019

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When women see men, they think of sex. You could equally well say that men think the same thing when they see women. But the reasons are very different. When men see women, they become aroused and so they...

Reproduction involves more than just intercourse

Sexuality is about reproduction. Human reproduction involves much more than intercourse. The distinct male and female roles are apparent from nature. The female produces...

Why women feel inadequate about their bodies

Rather than refer to explicit anatomy, most women prefer to gesture and make vague references to down there. We can use pussy for girls...

At puberty girls develop a child-bearing capacity

From a young age, most girls demonstrate a more passive and timid personality than most boys. Girls focus on social activities and rather than...

Human sexual anatomy and development

Sexuality is about appreciating the human body and sexual anatomy. We should understand the function of the male and female genitalia as well as...

Responsiveness varies between individuals

Research indicates that there is a huge range in responsiveness (frequency with which we orgasm) for both sexes that defines normal. Even extreme frequencies...

Child sexual abuse, incest and paedophilia

Men rarely appreciate that they are the ones who generally have control in sexual situations. Men may start with pushing for innocent activity but...

Male propaganda: saying women should enjoy sex

Ask a woman in any developing country and she will tell you that sex is for male pleasure and making babies. Try asking a...

Domestic violence & emotional abuse in the home

Domestic violence (violence in the home), with women and children as primary victims, is a major worldwide epidemic. The majority, an estimated 90 percent...

Men’s sex drive can cause them to be insensitive

Men respect each other on the basis of power: brute force, money or status. The male role of protector gives men a sense of...

Women drive the need for dating and romance

While men assume that sex is key to adult relationships, women tend to focus on affectionate companionship. Unless she is trading sex for money,...

Women’s orgasm claims do not result in more sex

Let’s imagine, for a moment, that men and women have the same level of responsiveness (orgasm frequency). Even so, it is unlikely that two...

The ability to see a partner as a sex object

Unlike emotional attachments, arousal is not caused by a specific person or by a relationship. Arousal relies on being able to see a person,...

How we know that someone has had an orgasm

Orgasm is a subconscious response but we need to take conscious actions to achieve it. A responsive person knows when they have had an...

How we know that female orgasm is uncommon

Confusion over the anatomy involved in female orgasm arises on two counts. Firstly women are not aroused with a lover, so they are not...

How anyone achieves orgasm when they are alone

Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation. Our mind’s ability to respond to erotic scenarios (both real and imagined)...

Women make conscious effort to respond sexually

Men are naturally more proactive as lovers than women are. Men stimulate a partner because they are aroused by touching, kissing and penetrating a...

Only men are aroused by the prospect of sex

Men enjoy their arousal on seeing an attractive woman but men are rarely on the receiving end of sexual appreciation from women. Many men...

Sex as a bargaining chip in loving relationships

When we are single, we can focus on our own selfish needs. But when we have a relationship with another person, we need to...

Men & women’s perspectives on relationships

Sexuality is about a sexual relationship, which includes social, emotional and sexual aspects. Long-term committed relationships are vital to supporting families over the decades...

How a couple can bring variety to intercourse

For many people penetration is the ultimate turn-on because it is the most intimate act we can engage in with another person. Different positions...

Sexual techniques that may pleasure a woman

Young women can often find intercourse painful. A woman’s amenability to exploring sex play depends on the pleasure she enjoys without needing to put...

The sex industry focuses on male gratification

Sexuality is about talking, observing or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards. Depending on our personality we may employ...