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The sex industry

Sexuality is about observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards.

Women are often disappointed with casual sex

We are all living longer due to improved health and life-styles. So ‘til death do us part’ is longer than it used to be centuries ago. Some couples like the idea that they are not bound to another person for decades. But for most couples this is not an option and adultery is a guilty…

Women attract men by sexualising themselves

We wear clothes for warmth, for decency, for protection and also for display. The need to differentiate ourselves depends on our personality. Some women use dress as a means of providing a sexual come-on (a form of invitation). Women tend to display their bodies to the full extent allowed by the definition of decency in…

The sexual politics of women competing over men

Women define their lives in terms of relationships. Women are foremost wives, mothers, lovers and mistresses. Relatively few women define their lives in terms of their own creative, professional or sporting pursuits. So women tend to depend on the men in their lives for support. This makes it very difficult for them to comment honestly…

Male propaganda: saying women should enjoy sex

If men and women wanted the same thing there would be no sexual politics. Men and women are at odds because they want different things from each other. Most women want affectionate companionship and family. It is this desire for children that continues to cause women to be dependent on men. Women need something to…

Sex as a competitive sport & entertainment

Both heterosexual and homosexual men can become obsessed with their own performance and a lover’s as if sex is a competitive sport. However, over time this approach to sex can cause dissatisfaction. In general, most people derive more contentment from relationships based on a sense of emotional connection with a lover. The non-orgasmic aspects of…

Women are not respected for being promiscuous

A man defends his honour by fighting and beating an opponent. A woman defends her honour by fighting off unwanted suitors and saving her virginity for her own choice of lover. One of the greatest insults a man can use against another man is to imply that his mother is sexually easy. Someone who has…

Prostitution generally involves men paying for sex

There have always been a few women who are willing to offer men sex on demand. But they want to be paid. By far the most common form of prostitution involves women providing sexual services to men. The second most common is among male homosexuals (4% of the male population). Prostitution is least common among…