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Masturbation

Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation alone.

Women orgasm only in specific circumstances

Male masturbation acts as a safety valve for men’s sex drive. But a woman has no conscious awareness of needing sexual release. A woman does not have the benefit of the external triggers that cause male arousal before men even start on stimulation. A woman has to generate sufficient arousal for orgasm out of nothing.…

We (not a sex toy or lover) cause our own orgasm

Men are aroused before they arrive at sexual opportunities. Young men especially, need minimal stimulation to orgasm. So it is assumed that women are similarly aroused and that they only need physical stimulation. But women are not aroused by the prospect of sex or by a lover’s nudity (as men are) so they are nowhere…

How we know that female masturbation is rare

We can be confident that orgasm is primarily a male phenomenon in humans because female orgasm has always been a mystery. Even in the 1950s, when Kinsey did his research, he commented that many couples had no idea that it might be possible for a woman to experience orgasm. It was immediately assumed that women…

How women masturbate themselves to orgasm

Female orgasm must be incredibly rare. If it were not, we would not have all the confusion over how it is achieved. So we are never going to have millions of women agreeing on how they orgasm. The best we can hope for is a scientific justification of women’s orgasm techniques. A woman masturbates by…

Educated men masturbate more than other men

Masturbation is least common among less educated males (89%). More men who are high school educated (95%) and who are college educated (96%) are involved in masturbation for at least some period of their lives. Masturbation frequencies after marriage are highest (69%) among men who are college educated. Only 42% of men who are high…

How men masturbate themselves to orgasm

Few boys masturbate before the onset of adolescence. Only 10% of boys are masturbating by the age of nine and only 13% by ten years of age. Male masturbation frequencies vary significantly indicating not only a range in responsiveness but also the different conscious choices men make over how they enjoy their arousal cycle from…

How anyone achieves orgasm when they are alone

Sexuality is about enjoying the responsiveness of our own body through masturbation. Our mind’s ability to respond to erotic scenarios (both real and imagined) causes us to investigate our body’s responses. Using the hands (or more accurately the fingers) to massage the aroused sex organ, allows us to enjoy the pleasure of arousal and orgasm…