How orgasm is achieved

Women mistake emotional sensations for orgasm

Anyone who is responsive struggles to understand why someone who has never had an orgasm would say that they have. Women refer to orgasm...

Differences between men and women’s responses

When a man walks down the street with a woman on his arm, he is proud that others may assume that he has a...

The ability to see a partner as a sex object

Unlike emotional attachments, arousal is not caused by a specific person or by a relationship. Arousal relies on being able to see a person,...

How we know that someone has had an orgasm

Orgasm is a subconscious response but we need to take conscious actions to achieve it. A responsive person knows when they have had an...

Mental arousal combines with a thrusting instinct

Men can orgasm from non-reproductive activity such as fellatio or masturbation. But men obtain the most satisfying sexual release by ejaculating into a lover’s...

The mental focus required to achieve orgasm

Anyone who masturbates needs to use fantasy for arousal. Turn-ons are erotic concepts or images that motivate us to engage in sexual activity. We...

Arousal is psychological and arises in the mind

Men think about sex much more frequently and explicitly than women do for hormonal reasons. There are many erotic triggers that cause male arousal...