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How men masturbate themselves to orgasm

Few boys masturbate before the onset of adolescence. Only 10% of boys are masturbating by the age of nine and only 13% by ten years of age. Male masturbation frequencies vary significantly in the population indicating not only a range in responsiveness but also the different conscious choices men make over how they enjoy their arousal cycle from erection to ejaculation.

There is a link between masturbation frequencies and creative imagination. Boys only start to use fantasies once they have some sexual experience (either alone or with a partner). A boy engages in fantasies (at least to start with) because he enjoys remembering a real-life episode. He uses his memories (perhaps enhanced over time by imagination) to achieve what initially occurred spontaneously or through physical stimulation alone.

Men masturbate by emulating the male role in intercourse. Men use the fingers of one hand or their whole fist to vigorously massage the shaft of the penis. Male masturbation simulates intercourse as much as one can by just using a hand. The action of using fingers to massage the skin covering the shaft of the penis rapidly up and down over the glans, stimulates the shaft of the penis in a similar way to intercourse. Men masturbate by using mental images or fantasies that involve fairly realistic opportunities for intercourse.

Men typically stand and move their foreskin firmly and with considerable speed back and forth over the glans (head of the penis). The glans is only stimulated through the foreskin and it is a fleeting movement. Most of the stimulation is directed towards the shaft of the penis, which is where the blood flow is concentrated in the corpora cavernosa. Men may observe their erection as they push their penis downwards and thrust their hips forwards.

Men are usually fairly flexible about where and in what position they can masturbate. Standing is the most natural position for male masturbation, which allows a man to easily tense his buttocks. Men can also orgasm from manual stimulation when sitting or lying down, with a lover for example. Men have no difficulty being masturbated to orgasm by a lover. Some men can masturbate in public such as in front of their same-sex friends.

Men masturbate with their eyes open. A man is aroused by the visual evidence of his own arousal. He typically watches the action of his hand pumping the shaft of his penis. A man may squeeze out some pre-cum liquid to lubricate the glans. As he approaches orgasm, a man raises himself up on tiptoe and pushes his hips forward. This has the effect of tightening the buttock muscles, which also pressures the internal organ from behind.

Men can orgasm through a variety of penile stimulation techniques including intercourse, masturbation and oral sex. Men masturbate to orgasm within a minute or less because of the more specific physical stimulation that masturbation provides. Some men choose to masturbate because they enjoy the variety of sexual outlet. Men do not masturbate if they have an opportunity for intercourse, which is much more pleasurable.

Only 92% of men masturbate. Out of every hundred men, 8 men never masturbate. Some boys have their first ejaculation through intercourse. They may never masturbate because they have intercourse sufficiently frequently that they never need the additional sexual outlet. A small number of men have sufficiently low sex drive that they have no need to masturbate.

Although male speeds to orgasm are quicker with masturbation (than intercourse) the orgasms may be erotically less rewarding. Masturbation relies on being able to imagine turn-ons whereas with intercourse a man has the turn-on of a partner that allows him to achieve the best sexual release. Intercourse has the benefit of providing a warm and wet environment. Men enjoy the arousing sensations of whole body contact and thrusting that intercourse provides (especially as they age and their hormone levels fall).

Highly responsive and younger men are easily aroused. So men only need to use fantasy to boost their natural arousal during masturbation alone. Some men rely purely on imagination but often visual material is more effective. Masturbation relies on having a creative imagination. The closer a scenario is to real life the easier it is to create a scenario in one’s imagination. Pornographic movies work better than images. Young men naturally transition to sex because their fantasies reflect realistic scenarios.

As technology improves, some men even use inflatable dolls to masturbate into. This is a reflection of men’s dependence on the erotic stimuli involved in having a real-life partner. The advantage of a sex doll is that it is always available. Sex dolls are typically female. Gay men do not need sex dolls. The fact that a heterosexual man can use a sex doll to ejaculate into is a reflection of men’s active role and women’s passive role. For some men a woman evidently represents little more than an orifice to ejaculate into. Women do not buy sex dolls or try to replicate the erotic stimuli of a real-life lover because they are not aroused by real-world erotic stimuli. Women do not imagine real life partners or realistic scenarios when they masturbate.

In the human male, masturbatory techniques are largely manual. … Most males carry the activity though to climax as rapidly as is possible, which means it does not ordinarily continue for more than a minute or two. (Alfred Kinsey 1948)