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Sexual pleasuring

Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover.

How a couple can bring variety to intercourse

For many people, penetration is the ultimate turn-on because it is the most intimate act we can engage in with another person. Different positions bring some variety to a very basic mating act. Women are much less interested in different positions. Rear entry can be more explicit and erotic. Positions for intercourse include ‘woman on…

A man wants a partner to make love to his penis

Children of both sexes are indifferent to genitals. They may be mildly curious but they consider genitals to be ugly and smelly parts of the body. At puberty, the increase in male responsiveness causes men to be fascinated by genitals. For women the connotations from childhood continue into adulthood because women are not responsive as…

Sexual techniques that may pleasure a man

A woman’s sexual role focuses on what happens before intercourse. She needs to attract a man and arouse him sufficiently so that he wants to penetrate her. Men often compliment women on their looks. Women rarely return these compliments. Everyone accepts that the admiration is one way. A woman does not need reassurance from sex…

How to make the most of sexual pleasuring

Sexuality is about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover. We experience sensual, emotional and erotic pleasure. People of both sexes regardless of orientation have different sexual appetites. Ideally there’s a match of intellect, curiosity, imagination, sense of humour and concern for hygiene. There are three main categories of anatomy. The sex organ is involved in…

Sexual pleasure need not always focus on orgasm

Alfred Kinsey concluded that any research based on the emotional aspects of sex would be too subjective and open to personal interpretation. He chose to use responsiveness as an objective measure of sexual activity. Measuring physical phenomenon is a very natural male perspective on sexual function. Kinsey acknowledged that this quantitative approach to his research…

Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men

Reproductively women are more essential than men are. Men go into battle not only because they are more suited to it but also because, reproductively, they are more dispensable than women. So men do not have the same emotional reassurance women have of being needed. Once a man chooses a mate, he feels emotionally fulfilled…

Our definition of sexual pleasure

The most basic definition of sexual pleasure is the enjoyment of arousal and orgasm. Men and women enjoy these phenomena under different circumstances. Given men’s sex drive to engage in penetrative sex, men focus on sexual activity with a lover. Sexual pleasure tends to be defined in male terms as the pleasure obtained from sexual…