The sex industry

Misunderstandings over how orgasm is achieved

The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core of sexual politics. Men want to feel valued as lovers. Women want...

Sexual behaviours versus sexual responsiveness

Understanding sexuality involves differentiating between responsiveness and conscious behaviours. For the most part, our minds and bodies function in similar ways regardless of sex...

Women have varying degrees of sexual willingness

Human beings are sociable animals. Most of us want to be accepted in our social group. We want to share experiences. We often enjoy...

Women are often disappointed with casual sex

We are all living longer due to improved health and life-styles. So ‘til death do us part’ is much longer than it used to...

Women attract men by sexualising themselves

We wear clothes for protection, for warmth, for decency and also for display. The need to differentiate ourselves depends on our personality. Many women...

The sexual politics of women competing over men

Men evidently do not get the variety and type of activity they would like from their relationships with women. Otherwise men would not seek...

Sex as a competitive sport & entertainment

A woman values a man as a social asset (who has status and experience). But a man values a woman as a sexual asset....