The sexual mind

How we know women do not orgasm with a lover

The research that identified female orgasm (Kinsey) clearly linked it with clitoral stimulation and female masturbation. This was why female orgasm was not identified...

Why couples don’t discuss female arousal

Most of us are insecure about pleasing or performing for a lover. We want to know how we can be good in bed. But...

Women fake orgasm to reassure men’s sexual ego

Kinsey’s research revealed that some women orgasm by masturbating alone. Previously no one had any idea that women might be capable of orgasm at...

Women make conscious effort to respond sexually

Men are naturally more proactive as lovers than women are. Men stimulate a partner because they are aroused by touching, kissing and penetrating a...

The erotic pleasure a man enjoys from sex

Men typically initiate sex and they masturbate much more frequently than women do. If male sex drive only involved a desire for orgasm, then...

Only men are aroused by the prospect of sex

Men enjoy their arousal on seeing an attractive woman but men are rarely on the receiving end of sexual appreciation from women. Many men...

Men are aroused by seeing & stimulating genitals

Children of both sexes are indifferent to genitals. They may be mildly curious but they consider genitals to be ugly and smelly parts of...