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Non-sexual intimacy

Sexuality is about non-sexual intimacy & how we feel loved in our relationships.

Women do not need to be like men to be valid

Women are largely disinterested in sexual discussions unless they are selling something. Women who are selling a positive view of sex, often claim to orgasm. This is a false show of confidence. It hides an insecurity. Because they can’t explain anything in the real world with confidence. Telling women that they should be able to…

Ego means men overlook what women contribute

Men usually make the first move in dating scenarios, which puts a woman in the position of turning down the men she is not attracted to. Men get used to having to pursue a woman. Men also accept that women often give little positive encouragement, which they attribute to shyness or modesty. This is often…

Men cannot accept that women are unresponsive

Men’s prime interest in sexual knowledge focuses on how women can be encouraged to be interested in intercourse. They focus on stimulation techniques rather than turn-ons. Even if men are told that women need emotional drivers to enjoy sex, men simply don’t relate to the information. This is a key obstacle in educating men about…

Men’s sex drive can cause them to be insensitive

The women’s liberation movement involves women negotiating for special treatment from men. But it is this special treatment that convinces men of their own superiority. It is in men’s nature to push. It is in women’s nature to give way. But it shouldn’t always be that way. Relationships are about compromise. Someone has to flex…

Intercourse is the heterosexual lovemaking act

Young people should understand what makes a positive relationship and what makes a bad one. There are benefits and risks involved in relationships with different degrees of sexual intimacy. We need a minimum level of self-esteem and self-confidence so that we can formulate our own view without being coerced by undue pressure from others. Intercourse…

Women drive the need for dating and romance

Without sex, there is little intimacy between adults. Women are dependent on men to provide this sense of passion and connection with another adult. Platonic love is caring and affectionate. Sexual love (or reciprocating sexual love) can be more intensely emotional (at least in the beginning). Women experience this through the need to respond to…

Sexual attraction & commitment to a relationship

Especially in the early days of the relationship we can feel an electric thrill from touching, hearing or seeing our lover. We have a strong desire to touch them and to be touched by them. When we are young the novelty of the emotions can result in tremendous emotional highs and lows. If we feel…