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Responsiveness

Sexuality is about responsiveness, orientation and personality.

Sexual responsiveness is a male characteristic

Reproduction involves the biology whereby a man impregnates a woman. A man’s arousal cycle is an essential (and so automatic) part of this process. Responsiveness including erection, ejaculation of sperm and the associated orgasm are all key aspects of male sexuality. When boys first start ejaculating, they have the highest responsiveness of any time in…

How we know that someone has had an orgasm

Orgasm involves genital secretions (cervical and male glands), tumescence (increased blood flow in the whole body as well as the sex organ), rhythmic pelvic thrusts, muscular contractions and a release of nervous energy. We discover orgasm because we have the capability. No one teaches us how to orgasm. Responsiveness is sporadic and occurs randomly depending…

Responsiveness varies between individuals

We are all capable of achieving the basics in any field, whether academic, sport or music, for example. But some people excel in these areas because they are gifted. Such people may be admired for their talents but they are an anomaly. Their ability makes them unusual. But they are not abnormal. For them this…

Sexual responsiveness & orientation

Sexuality is about responsiveness and orientation, which are both determined before we are born. Our responsiveness is innate, sporadic and beyond our conscious control. Our orientation is defined by who we are attracted to: for example, the same sex or the opposite sex. Sexual responsiveness is the capacity to respond to eroticism to the point…

Platonic love is just as powerful as sexual love

Men think they’re sexual because they have an arousal cycle that ends with grunts and ejaculation. But they miss the enjoyment of sensuality, the emotional pleasure, the needing and the loving, touching and feeling. It’s all over in a flash; until the next time. A man hopes that a woman has sex for her own…

Lesbianism focuses on longer-term relationships

Only 2% of the female population is exclusively homosexual (half as common as male homosexuality). The average age to come out is 17 years old for gay men but 40 years old for gay women. A woman’s sexual fantasies might cause her to suspect she is lesbian earlier than this. But a lesbian woman can…

Men are aroused by seeing & stimulating genitals

Male mammals are motivated to engage in activities other than the mating act itself. They enjoy stimulating their own and a partner’s genitals. Male mammals are also motivated to obtain oral stimulation of their genitalia. This indicates the male’s much greater fascination with genitals and his motivation to engage in genital sex play of all…