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Responsiveness

Sexuality is about responsiveness, orientation and personality.

Sexual responsiveness is a male characteristic

Responsiveness is a male characteristic. A few men orgasm infrequently. The function of male orgasm is to trigger the ejaculation of sperm. When a man has an orgasm, he always ejaculates. A man can enjoy both as separate phenomena. Ejaculation is physical and orgasm is psychological. Male orgasm rewards a man for ejaculating and potentially…

Responsiveness varies between individuals

Orgasm is a unique response of the body that occurs in the same way for everyone. Responsiveness works like a capacitor. Tension builds in the nervous system (like electrical potential) and is then released. Women experience considerably less sexual tension. Thus male orgasm is much stronger and may explain, in part, men’s greater sexual motivation.…

Sexual responsiveness & orientation

Sexuality is about responsiveness and orientation, both of which are determined before we are born. Among the genes we inherit from our parents are those that determine responsiveness and orientation. Any child can potentially be born homosexual. Likewise, we are all born with varying degrees of responsiveness. Responsiveness is a measure of the frequency with…

Lesbianism focuses on longer-term relationships

The average age to come out is 17 years old for gay men but 40 years old for lesbians. A woman’s fantasies might cause her to suspect she is lesbian earlier than this. But a lesbian woman can marry and have children just as a heterosexual woman does because female orgasm is not required for…

Male homosexuality focuses on casual sex

While 50% of the male population is exclusively heterosexual, only 4% is exclusively homosexual. Around 10% of men at some time in their lives have predominantly homosexual relationships for a period of a few years. Bisexual activity is relatively common for men. Some men are aroused by both sexes and many men (37%) have had…

Orientation is defined by who we are attracted to

The genes that cause us to be homosexual arise in random individuals throughout the population. No one chooses to be gay. It’s just the way they are. Homosexuality is a completely harmless and natural state for anyone to have. For those people who are gay, homosexuality is quite normal. It is a misconception that gays…

How we know that someone has had an orgasm

A sex education should include a description of sexual techniques that may be used to pleasure men and women. These should differentiate between those techniques which assist with orgasm and those which provide sensual pleasure. We orgasm with a frequency dictated by our responsiveness. We think about sexual activity because some trigger causes us to…