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Emotional aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about engaging in intercourse (the mating act); non-sexual intimacy & how we feel loved in our relationships; and about our willingness to consent to sexual activity with others.

Women attract men by sexualising themselves

When we say that a couple ‘slept together’ we mean that they had intercourse. We assume that if a man and a woman share a bed overnight it is very likely that they had intercourse. We know that most men would be aroused just from the thought of a woman (possibly semi-naked) lying in close…

Men’s sex drive can cause them to be insensitive

Children should be taught when to stand up to bullies and when to ask for support from adults. A bully is not a strong person. A bully feels strong if they succeed in victimising someone who is more vulnerable than they are. Teenagers should be informed about the emotional impact and legal implications of different…

Intercourse needs to continue until ejaculation

Imagine a woman who is more like a man. She approaches sexual activity already aroused and she is turned-on by stimulating a lover’s genitals. So she behaves like a man. First she licks and sucks on his nipples. Then she does the same for his testicles. She caresses and kisses his body all over from…

The romantic pleasure a woman enjoys from sex

Mammals have hair or fur, which changes the way an animal looks. We find other mammals more appealing than other animals because they can be soft and cuddly. Mammals use grooming to connect socially with others. They also snuggle up together for warmth or for comfort. Regardless of any eroticism or responsiveness, there is a…

Unbiased sex information

Imagine that you are male (where men are docile creatures who are modest and shy) and you live in a world that is dominated by women who want to believe that you are primarily pleasured through stimulation of the testicles. You yourself have personal experience that orgasm is achieved through stimulation of the penis and…

Penetration is what makes sex erotic and taboo

Sex education should present in as unbiased a way as possible the different moral and social issues that are raised by different behaviours. Sex education should avoid judgemental opinions such as ‘wrong’ or ‘abnormal’. Sex education is about putting behaviours in context. Teenagers need to understand that when their sexual choices involve interacting with other…

Women are often unsure about orgasm during sex

Men assume that women experience sex drive, arousal and orgasm as readily as they do. So they believe that women orgasm with a lover: by manual or oral stimulation of the clitoris and by intercourse, where stimulation is focused on the vagina. It is no wonder then that, when researchers ask about women about orgasm,…