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Emotional aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about engaging in intercourse (the mating act); non-sexual intimacy & how we feel loved in our relationships; and about our willingness to consent to sexual activity with others.

Women do not need to be like men to be valid

Women are largely disinterested in sexual discussions unless they are selling something. Women who are selling a positive view of sex, often claim to orgasm. This is a false show of confidence. It hides an insecurity. Because they can’t explain anything in the real world with confidence. Telling women that they should be able to…

Unbiased sex information

Imagine that you are male (where men are docile creatures who are modest and shy) and you live in a world that is dominated by women who want to believe that you are primarily pleasured through stimulation of the testicles. You yourself have personal experience that orgasm is achieved through stimulation of the penis and…

Child sexual abuse, incest and paedophilia

Men rarely appreciate that they tend to have control in sexual situations. Men may start with innocent activity but inevitably this leads to a desire for penetrative sex. Children of both sexes and teenage girls do not have the physical strength or the mental assertiveness to fight off unwanted advances from men. Many children who…

Women are often unsure about orgasm during sex

Given the lack of precedents for female orgasm, we need strong evidence to support the human phenomenon. Kinsey found that women who engaged in sexual activity alone (masturbation) were successful in achieving orgasm 95% of the time. But he found that only two out of every five women (40%) who engaged in sexual activity with…

Ego means men overlook what women contribute

Men usually make the first move in dating scenarios, which puts a woman in the position of turning down the men she is not attracted to. Men get used to having to pursue a woman. Men also accept that women often give little positive encouragement, which they attribute to shyness or modesty. This is often…

Domestic violence & emotional abuse in the home

Domestic violence crosses all ethnic, racial, orientation, religious and socioeconomic lines. Some societies feel that a man has the right to be physically aggressive as a means of asserting his authority. Bullying behaviour comes in various guises. Some approaches are cloaked in sentiments of love or even affection but they have an undercurrent of someone…

Women are naturally sexually passive with a lover

Imagine a woman who is more like a man. She approaches sex already aroused and she is turned-on by genitals. So caresses and kisses her lover’s body all over from head to toe. She homes in on his penis and gives him fantastic oral sex. Where would the human race be now if women behaved…