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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

Why men feel inadequate over penis size

For men there is no subject more taboo than penis size. The first issue is simple competition between men. The second is the misconception that women are stimulated to orgasm through intercourse. Men assume incorrectly that a woman obtains more pleasure from a larger or longer penis. Sadly, for most of the time the penis…

Sexual pleasuring a woman may enjoy

A woman needs time for her mind to tune into the sensations of being stimulated. Build-up with a partner takes much longer than a couple of minutes. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as a man continues to stimulate a woman. A woman’s mind has no conscious focus except the sensations…

How couples can communicate over sex

Today we talk about ‘hooking up’ and ‘performance’. Euphemisms communicate a sophistication of being trendy but also avoid using sexually explicit vocabulary. No one talks about orgasm explicitly. It’s all about multiple orgasms or how intense an orgasm is. Bravado is a way of covering up embarrassment over discussing sexual issues explicitly. Women boast about…

Women are not respected for being promiscuous

When we talk about a man defending his honour, we mean that he is motivated to fight an opponent to demonstrate that he can beat a rival. When we talk about a woman defending her honour, we mean that she fights off unwanted suitors and that she defends her right to choose her lover. One…

How a couple can bring variety to intercourse

For many people, penetration is the ultimate turn-on because it represents the most intimate act with another person. But if a man offers it from the first moment of a sexual encounter (or five seconds later), a woman never has time to feel that it would be nice to have. When combined with a face-to-face…

Sex as a bargaining chip in loving relationships

The battle of the sexes. If men and women love each other why are women always fighting men for respect? Part of the reason is men’s desire to control women as their prime sexual outlet. Men and women also disagree over the frequency of sexual activity. Sex is often the battleground. Men are physically bigger…

Prostitution generally involves men paying for sex

Prostitution generally involves men paying for sex. Prostitution where women provide sexual services to men is by far the most common form of prostitution. The second most common form of prostitution involves men servicing gay men, who only make up 4% of the male population. Prostitution is least common among gay women but even straight…