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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

How women can enjoy vaginal fisting and anal sex

If a woman is feeling turned-on, she may be willing to allow a man to provide some more explicit stimulation that focuses on her arousal. When she is in the mood she may enjoy the pleasure of her own arousal as her lover stimulates her. If a couple has good communication and the man has…

The misunderstandings behind sexual dysfunction

Sex is easy for a woman in a new relationship. When a man is easily aroused and when she feels admired and appreciated. But after years or decades of marriage it is not so easy any more. There is no romance. She doesn’t feel appreciated or even loved necessarily. It feels like sex is expected.…

Why women feel inadequate about their bodies

Humans are inclined to get competitive when one person is compared with another. The tendency is to conclude that more is better than less and that big is better than small. But a man is not sexier just because he is more responsive than average. Nor does having a bigger penis than average make him…

Cunnilingus is sensual but does not cause orgasm

During intercourse a woman is assumed to respond in such a way that is complementary to the male anatomy. She is supposed to orgasm through stimulation of the vagina. By contrast, during cunnilingus a woman is assumed to respond in a way that mirrors a man’s anatomy. So in this situation a woman is supposed…

A man needs to make sex exciting for a woman

A man is cautious in the beginning because he recognises that a woman is reticent. Romance is associated with the period of time before a couple marries. During this period each person is still investing in the other. But then over time and with the security of marriage, they may take each other for granted.…

Why men feel inadequate over penis size

For men there is no subject more taboo than penis size. The first issue is simple competition between men. The second is the misconception that women are stimulated to orgasm through intercourse. Men assume incorrectly that a woman obtains more pleasure from a larger or longer penis. Sadly, for most of the time the penis…

Sexual pleasuring a woman may enjoy

A woman needs time for her mind to tune into the sensations of being stimulated. Build-up with a partner takes much longer than a couple of minutes. But also the sensations are more pleasurable and physically intense as a man continues to stimulate a woman. A woman’s mind has no conscious focus except the sensations…