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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

Premature ejaculation and male impotence

Only a quarter of men are impotent by the age of 70. A man has a desire for intercourse even after he has lost the physical ability to back it up. Male responsiveness is limited by the physical (the ability to get an erection). Men’s insecurities are that sex is very simple but they’re not…

The sexual politics of women competing over men

The issue of female orgasm with a lover is at the core of sexual politics. Men want to feel valued as lovers. Women want to keep men happy in bed so they get other things in exchange like love, support & companionship. But we cannot effectively protect young people, especially girls, when we cannot be…

Explaining men & women’s sexual behaviours

Men and women’s sexuality are fundamentally different. Men are responsive. They enjoy erotic fantasies and genital activity. Women are emotional. They enjoy romance and companionable activities. A man is sexual because he is responsive. A woman is sexy because she is attractive to men. The reason we have two sexes is for diversity. If men…

How women can enjoy vaginal fisting and anal sex

If a woman is feeling turned-on, she may be willing to allow a man to provide some more explicit stimulation that focuses on her arousal. When she is in the mood she may enjoy the pleasure of her own arousal as her lover stimulates her. If a couple has good communication and the man has…

The misunderstandings behind sexual dysfunction

Sex is easy for a woman in a new relationship. When a man is easily aroused and when she feels admired and appreciated. But after years or decades of marriage it is not so easy any more. There is no romance. She doesn’t feel appreciated or even loved necessarily. It feels like sex is expected.…

Why women feel inadequate about their bodies

Humans are inclined to get competitive when one person is compared with another. The tendency is to conclude that more is better than less and that big is better than small. But a man is not sexier just because he is more responsive than average. Nor does having a bigger penis than average make him…

Cunnilingus is sensual but does not cause orgasm

During intercourse a woman is assumed to respond in such a way that is complementary to the male anatomy. She is supposed to orgasm through stimulation of the vagina. By contrast, during cunnilingus a woman is assumed to respond in a way that mirrors a man’s anatomy. So in this situation a woman is supposed…