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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

Rejection of statistical sex research

Sex research, that reveals women’s conclusions, challenges male beliefs about how and when women orgasm. The idea that women orgasm alone rather than with a lover was unpopular. So the approach was quickly abandoned, Men want to know how women can be encouraged to engage in more intercourse. For the same reason, women also want…

Sex as a competitive sport & entertainment

Both heterosexual and homosexual men can become obsessed with their own performance and a lover’s as if sex is a competitive sport. However, over time this approach to sex can cause dissatisfaction. In general, most people derive more contentment from relationships based on a sense of emotional connection with a lover. The non-orgasmic aspects of…

Sex as a bargaining chip in loving relationships

Relationships of any kind are an inevitable compromise. No two individuals, even of the same sex, have exactly the same priorities at exactly the same time. When we are single, we can focus on our own needs. But when we have a relationship with another person, we need to consider their needs as well as…

How a couple can bring variety to intercourse

For many people, penetration is the ultimate turn-on because it is the most intimate act we can engage in with another person. Different positions bring some variety to a very basic mating act. Women are much less interested in different positions. Rear entry can be more explicit and erotic. Positions for intercourse include ‘woman on…

Women are not respected for being promiscuous

A man defends his honour by fighting and beating an opponent. A woman defends her honour by fighting off unwanted suitors and saving her virginity for her own choice of lover. One of the greatest insults a man can use against another man is to imply that his mother is sexually easy. Someone who has…

A man wants a partner to make love to his penis

Children of both sexes are indifferent to genitals. They may be mildly curious but they consider genitals to be ugly and smelly parts of the body. At puberty, the increase in male responsiveness causes men to be fascinated by genitals. For women the connotations from childhood continue into adulthood because women are not responsive as…

The misconceptions that arise from pornography

Women can engage in sexual activity indefinitely because they are unresponsive with a lover. In porn, multiple orgasms offer a way of explaining how women could be apparently re-aroused indefinitely. Porn actresses moan intermittently throughout the male performance. They build in some smaller climaxes along the way to bring the man on. It’s as if…