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Sex as a bargaining chip in loving relationships

The battle of the sexes. If men and women love each other why are women always fighting men for respect? Part of the reason is men’s desire to control women as their prime sexual outlet. Men and women also disagree over the frequency of sexual activity. Sex is often the battleground. Men are physically bigger…

How we know that someone has had an orgasm

Orgasm involves genital secretions (cervical and male glands), tumescence (increased blood flow in the whole body as well as the sex organ), rhythmic pelvic thrusts, muscular contractions and a release of nervous energy. We discover orgasm because we have the capability. No one teaches us how to orgasm. Responsiveness is sporadic and occurs randomly depending…

Only some men are motivated to offer foreplay

Alfred Kinsey was an empirical scientist. He liked facts and figures. He categorised people according to their educational level. Kinsey pointed out that sex manuals are often written by middle class educated people who don’t appreciate that their education affects their view of sexuality. He found that more educated men tend to appreciate eroticism: visual…

Sexual pleasuring a man may enjoy

For men sexual opportunities are precious. A man approaches sex with a sense of urgency and anxiety. His prime biological goal is to ejaculate within a woman’s vagina. A secondary goal (but a man’s prime conscious motivation) is to continue intercourse for as long as he can to enjoy the sensations of arousal from thrusting.…

Men tend to focus on opportunities for regular sex

Men’s goal when engaging in sexual activity is simple. Men want to enjoy their own arousal by close contact with a lover’s body, enjoy various forms of penile stimulation but ultimately to obtain the sexual satisfaction of penetrative sex by thrusting until ejaculation. Men can enjoy sex regardless of a relationship because they don’t obtain…

Sex as a competitive sport & entertainment

Human sexuality is often presented in terms of a relationship. This allows male and female sexuality to be viewed purely through social liaisons and reproduction. Little importance is placed on the massive sex industry because of the taboo over men paying women for sex. Men are quickly aroused and they orgasm easily. They don’t make…

Men sexualise women to assist with their arousal

Men’s sexual discussions tend to revolve around turn-ons because they find such conversations arousing. So men build up a fantasy world around women’s sexuality. When women say nothing, men assume that women are agreeing with them. But women rarely comment on sex. Neither are they typically interested in defining their own sexuality. So having no…