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Sex as a competitive sport & entertainment

Both heterosexual and homosexual men can become obsessed with their own performance and a lover’s as if sex is a competitive sport. However, over time this approach to sex can cause dissatisfaction. In general, most people derive more contentment from relationships based on a sense of emotional connection with a lover. The non-orgasmic aspects of…

Sexual responsiveness & orientation

Sexuality is about responsiveness and orientation, both of which are determined before we are born. Among the genes we inherit from our parents are those that determine responsiveness and orientation. Any child can potentially be born homosexual. Likewise, we are all born with varying degrees of responsiveness. Responsiveness is a measure of the frequency with…

Sexual behaviours versus sexual responsiveness

Our sexuality depends, not only on our responsiveness, but also on our personality. Understanding sexuality involves differentiating between responsiveness and conscious behaviours. We have no control over the level of our sex drive, the erotic stimuli that cause our arousal and the frequency with which we orgasm. Our responsiveness cannot be changed. We employ different…

Sex is an emotional bonding mechanism for men

Reproductively women are more essential than men are. Men go into battle not only because they are more suited to it but also because, reproductively, they are more dispensable than women. So men do not have the same emotional reassurance women have of being needed. Once a man chooses a mate, he feels emotionally fulfilled…

Men tend to focus on opportunities for regular sex

Once a man has experienced intercourse, sexual frustration tends to be felt more acutely. There are many triggers that cause male arousal throughout the day. This constant rearousal causes intense frustration if a man has no opportunity to release sexual tension by ejaculating through intercourse. Penetrative sex completes a man’s arousal cycle (from erection to…

Young men tend to focus on enjoying their arousal

Some young men can become erect many times through the day. At puberty a boy’s mind naturally focuses on his penis and its responsiveness. Boys enjoy the visual stimulus of nude pin-ups from adolescence onwards. Girls are not similarly aroused and men are expected to keep their genitals out of view to avoid giving offense.…