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Learn About Sexuality An interesting & fun way to learn about sexuality for all!
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    • Women’s Sexual Behaviours & Responses
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    • Understanding Sexual Response
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      Lesbianism focuses on longer-term relationships

      Male homosexuality focuses on casual sex

      Orientation is defined by who we are attracted to

      Men cannot accept that women are unresponsive

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    • AllConsensual sexNon-sexual intimacyVaginal intercourse

      Bill Masters and Virginia Johnson’s research (1966)

      Providing sex information without political bias

      Sex without consent is rape regardless of intent

      Child sexual abuse, incest and paedophilia

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    • AllHow orgasm is achievedMasturbationThe sexual mind

      Shere Hite’s research findings (1976)

      Alfred Kinsey’s research findings (1948 and 1953)

      Everyone achieves orgasm in similar ways

      Differences between men and women’s responses

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    • AllCommitted relationshipsSexual pleasuringThe sex industry

      Sexual pleasure need not always focus on orgasm

      Why women do not orgasm from cunnilingus

      Sexual pleasure is defined by sociable activity

      Only some men are motivated to offer foreplay

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Sexual pleasure is defined by sociable activity

Differences between men and women’s responses

Women only orgasm when alone not with a lover

We (not a sex toy or lover) cause our own orgasm

Penetration is what makes sex erotic and taboo

Women unsure about orgasm

Women are often unsure about orgasm during sex

Women are naturally sexually passive with a lover

Men’s sexual satisfaction relies on having a lover

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