From a young age, many boys already demonstrate a more active and outgoing personality than most girls. Boys enjoy physical activities such as sport where conversation is minimal. This gender difference is apparent before the onset of adolescence and is not attributable solely to hormones. The changes at puberty are not limited to physical changes. There are emotional and social impacts. There is likely to be competition between boys for opportunities for physical intimacy with girls, uncertainties about approaching the opposite sex and possible concerns about homosexual feelings. Both sexes have a desire to be accepted as part of the social group.
The male sex organ is easily identifiable because boys hold it when they urinate. The proper name for a boy’s willy is penis. There are many slang words for the penis including cock, dick and prick. The penis and testicles increase in size at adolescence and boys become sexually active. During puberty, hormones cause boys to experience sexual arousal. They feel excited when they think about a person they are sexually attracted to. Men have an arousal cycle that starts with erection and ends with ejaculation.
Boys can have erections as early as 8 or 9 years old. Instead of being flaccid (or limp), the penis becomes very firm (stiff or hard) and juts out from the body at an angle. Slang words for an erection include a stiffy, hard-on and boner. The average position for men of all ages is just above the horizontal. 15-20% of men carry the penis at 45⁰ above the horizontal while 8-10% have an erection tight against the body. A young boy can hold an erection for longer and at an angle tighter to the body on average than an older man.
Kinsey observed that boys, who have sexual experience, may be capable of orgasm at a young age (half by 7 and two-thirds by 12 years old). But many fewer boys experience early orgasm in the general population due to lack of sexual opportunities. Until they start ejaculating, these early orgasms tend to be sporadic. Less than 1 per cent of boys (0.81%) ejaculate without any genital contact in pre-adolescence. Fear, apprehension, shock or surprise can all produce nervous system responses. Other emotional stimuli and non-sexual physical stimulation may also cause an early one-off ejaculation).
At puberty a boy’s mind naturally focuses on his penis and its responsiveness. Some young men can become erect many times throughout the day. Boys enjoy the visual stimulus of nude pin-ups from adolescence onwards. Girls are not aroused by male nudity in the same way. Men are expected to cover their genitals to avoid offending women. Boys do not spend time imagining the social context of marriage and family as girls do.
Testosterone is produced by the testes and the ovaries. Testosterone is involved in the development of the male reproductive organs before birth, and the development of secondary sex characteristics at puberty. Prior to puberty, boys and girls have the same levels of testosterone. A boy’s testosterone levels rise significantly (30 times more than before) in puberty, which causes physical changes in the body and also emotional mood swings. Males usually have much higher levels of testosterone in their body than females. When levels of testosterone are high enough, the testes start producing sperm, the penis and testes increase in size, the voice deepens, the chest and shoulders broaden and facial hair starts to grow. Testosterone is a factor in a man’s sex drive and can cause severe acne during puberty.
The first sign of male puberty is usually accelerated growth of the testes and scrotum with reddening and wrinkling of the scrotal skin. Pubic hair growth begins around the same time. The stimulus that triggers accelerated penis growth, also causes the seminal glands and the prostate to enlarge and develop. These glands and the prostate are situated close to the testicles (testes) and contribute 60% and 40% respectively of the seminal fluid.
Most boys (90%) ejaculate for the first time between the ages of 11 and 15. The start of male adolescence is defined by the age at which a boy has his first ejaculation. First ejaculation occurs about a year after the beginning of the accelerated penis growth. Semen is a creamy liquid that contains sperm (the genetic material needed to make a baby), which are produced by the testes. Semen passes via the urethra (the central tube of the penis) to the outside. Ejaculation (of semen) and male orgasm are two separate phenomena. It is possible for a young boy to orgasm without ejaculating. But once a boy reaches adolescence (assumed to coincide with a boy’s first ejaculation) he most normally ejaculates every time he has an orgasm.
Sources of first ejaculation are masturbation (two-thirds), wet dreams (in an eight of the cases), vaginal intercourse (one boy in eight) and homosexual contacts (one boy in twenty). Initially male arousal occurs as a response to hormones. Over time boys come to associate their arousal with psychological stimuli (erotic turn-ons) that are explicitly sexual in nature. They also become increasingly reliant on specific penile stimulation to achieve orgasm.
Some boys ejaculate when they are asleep. Wet dreams are most common (71% of men) between the ages of 21 and 25 when the highest average frequency is about once in three weeks (0.3 per week). By the age of 50 only a third of men have sex dreams, which do not average more than four or five a year. Both masturbation and sex dreams are more common among the educated because they depend on a man having a creative imagination.
Erection … is practically a daily matter for all small boys, from earliest infancy … Slight physical stimulation of the genitalia, general body tensions and generalized emotional situations bring immediate erection, even when there is no specifically sexual situation involved. (Alfred Kinsey)