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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

A man needs to make sex exciting for a woman

When women see men, they think of sex. You could equally well say that men think the same thing when they see women. But the reasons are very different. When men see women, they become aroused & so they think of sex. But women are not aroused by men. They just know that men are…

Premature ejaculation and male impotence

The objective of a mating act is for the male to deposit his semen in the female’s vagina. From a reproductive perspective, the quicker the better. For highly responsive men, sexual thoughts are frequently on their mind. They are often aroused throughout the day. When they have an opportunity for sex with a partner their…

The sexual politics of women competing over men

Women define their lives in terms of relationships. Women are foremost wives, mothers, lovers and mistresses. Relatively few women define their lives in terms of their own creative, professional or sporting pursuits. So women tend to depend on the men in their lives for support. This makes it very difficult for them to comment honestly…

Sexual techniques that may pleasure a woman

Sex feels appropriate to a woman once a couple have spent some quality time together. A woman responds best when her partner demonstrates how much he cares about her well-being. The attention he pays her motivates her to return the favour by pleasuring him. But she needs to be in the right frame of mind…

The misunderstandings behind sexual dysfunction

True sexual dysfunctions are very rare. The word ‘dysfunction’ implies that something is not working properly. To define ‘dysfunctional’ we must also know what is ‘normal’. But we also need to be explicit about whether we are talking about reproductive function, orgasm or emotional pleasure. Intercourse is a mating act. As long as a man…

Male propaganda: saying women should enjoy sex

If men and women wanted the same thing there would be no sexual politics. Men and women are at odds because they want different things from each other. Most women want affectionate companionship and family. It is this desire for children that continues to cause women to be dependent on men. Women need something to…

Rejection of statistical sex research

Many thousands of women have asked about how they can orgasm through intercourse. Even more men have asked how they can give a woman an orgasm during intercourse. Many more never ask because of embarrassment. Yet no one ever offers the research finding that the majority of women say that they do not orgasm regularly…