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Social aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about a committed relationship (including social, emotional & sexual activity); observing, talking or interacting with others in return for payment or other non-relationship rewards; and about enjoying sexual pleasure with a lover

Sex as a bargaining chip in loving relationships

The battle of the sexes. If men and women love each other why are women always fighting men for respect? Part of the reason is men’s desire to control women as their prime sexual outlet. Men and women also disagree over the frequency of sexual activity. Sex is often the battleground. Men are physically bigger…

Prostitution generally involves men paying for sex

Prostitution generally involves men paying for sex. Prostitution where women provide sexual services to men is by far the most common form of prostitution. The second most common form of prostitution involves men servicing gay men, who only make up 4% of the male population. Prostitution is least common among gay women but even straight…

Rejection of statistical sex research

Many thousands of women have asked about how they can orgasm through intercourse. Even more men have asked how they can give a woman an orgasm during intercourse. Many more never ask because of embarrassment. Yet no one ever offers the research finding that the majority of women say that they do not orgasm regularly…

A man wants a partner to make love to his penis

When a man masturbates, he uses firm and sustained stimulation of his penis from the outset. When a woman first masturbates a man, she may be surprised by just how firmly she can stimulate his penis by hand compared with her own masturbation. The clitoris responds very differently to the penis. Even for women who…

Women tend to focus on companionship & family

Marriage comes with its privileges and its obligations. A man’s privilege is the opportunity for regular sex without having to invest in persuading a woman to have intercourse with him each time (as a single man must). A woman’s privilege is to have children and be able to devote her life to raising them with…

Women are often disappointed with casual sex

Some men only ever have one lover and many are loyal to one partner. Other men decide to keep their options open. For some men, sex is an opportunity to explore sexual pleasuring with different partners. They are horrified by the idea of limited themselves to one partner. Later in life, men are less responsive…

Sexual pleasuring a man may enjoy

For men sexual opportunities are precious. A man approaches sex with a sense of urgency and anxiety. His prime biological goal is to ejaculate within a woman’s vagina. A secondary goal (but a man’s prime conscious motivation) is to continue intercourse for as long as he can to enjoy the sensations of arousal from thrusting.…