Thursday, February 21, 2019

Intellectual aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about our motivation to explore sexual fantasies; masturbation alone; and how we can achieve orgasm alone and with a lover.

Women only orgasm when alone not with a lover

For men, penetrative sex is more rewarding than masturbation alone. So it’s difficult for men to accept that the female experience is the reverse....

How we know women do not orgasm with a lover

Intercourse and cunnilingus involve different female anatomy. During intercourse a woman is assumed to respond in a way that is complementary to the male...

Women’s fantasies are sexually explicit scenarios

When men are with a lover they don’t need to use fantasy. Men are easily aroused by the presence of a lover’s body and...

Women mistake emotional sensations for orgasm

Men’s prime motivation for engaging in sexual activity (alone or with a partner) is their mental arousal. Men’s heads (to varying degrees) are full...

Why couples don’t discuss female arousal

Much of the sexual activity between heterosexuals is carried on without communication. Once intimacy has been established, by kissing for example, a man assumes...

Differences between men and women’s responses

The key difference between male and female responsiveness is that male orgasm is needed for reproduction. Female orgasm is not. When a man is...

How we know that female orgasm is uncommon

We can be confident that orgasm is primarily a male phenomenon in humans because female orgasm has always been a mystery. Even in the...