Learn About Sexuality

Emotional aspects of sexuality

Sexuality is about engaging in intercourse (the mating act); non-sexual intimacy & how we feel loved in our relationships; and about our willingness to consent to sexual activity with others.

Men cannot accept that women are unresponsive

Men’s prime interest in sexual knowledge focuses on how women can be encouraged to be interested in intercourse. They focus on stimulation techniques rather than turn-ons. Even if men are told that women need emotional drivers to enjoy sex, men simply don’t relate to the information. This is a key obstacle in educating men about…

Sexual scenarios tend to be biased in men’s favour

Bravado is a way of covering up embarrassment. Adults use euphemisms to imply a fashionable sexual sophistication while avoiding the need to be explicit. Men talk about humping, screwing and banging. These words emphasise the male role of thrusting into a vagina. Women are the ones being humped, screwed or banged. Movies use sound effects…

How we know that women do not have a sex drive

An urge comes from our own bodies. Only an erectile sex organ can cause a person to have a drive to penetrate. Although women have the remains of a phallus, it is not capable of penetrating another person. Neither is the clitoris ever erect and sensitised as the penis is. So women do not experience…

Men’s sex drive can cause them to be insensitive

The women’s liberation movement involves women negotiating for special treatment from men. But it is this special treatment that convinces men of their own superiority. It is in men’s nature to push. It is in women’s nature to give way. But it shouldn’t always be that way. Relationships are about compromise. Someone has to flex…

Intercourse is a territorial act of male dominance

Intercourse begins with a man’s arousal because it relies on a man having an erection. Intercourse comes to an end with male orgasm and ejaculation because a man loses his erection. This is why male performance (the ability to become aroused and orgasm) is critical to heterosexual activity. Female performance has come to refer to…

Sex drive: a need to ejaculate through intercourse

Sex is natural for a man because the urge to engage in intercourse comes from his own body. A man responds to a subconscious reproductive drive. His conscious mind focuses on the pleasure of thrusting until ejaculation, which is the most satisfying way for men to release their sexual emotions. A man is incentivised to…

Intercourse is the heterosexual lovemaking act

Young people should understand what makes a positive relationship and what makes a bad one. There are benefits and risks involved in relationships with different degrees of sexual intimacy. We need a minimum level of self-esteem and self-confidence so that we can formulate our own view without being coerced by undue pressure from others. Intercourse…