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Intercourse is totally defined by male responses

Before we even consider engaging in sexual activity that focuses on achieving orgasm, we must be in a state of arousal that we know (from experience) means that we have a reasonable (worth making the effort) chance of reaching orgasm. For a man this state is usually defined by whether he can achieve a strong…

Why men feel inadequate over penis size

For men there is no subject more taboo than penis size. The first issue is simple competition between men. The second is the misconception that women are stimulated to orgasm through intercourse. Men assume incorrectly that a woman obtains more pleasure from a larger or longer penis. Sadly, for most of the time the penis…

How we know that female masturbation is rare

Women represent a particular educational challenge because they are not nearly as curious as men are about sexual phenomena. Women often fail to realise that they are ignorant of the specifics of sexual response. They are unaware of the sexual content out there fictional or otherwise. Women rarely participate in any kind of informed sexual…

Women make conscious effort to respond sexually

When female mammals are in heat they are amenable to allowing another animal (even a female) to mount them. In other species of animals, mating only occurs when the female is amenable (called ‘on heat’ or in oestrus) because this is when she is capable of being impregnated. Women are not limited by oestrus. They…

Women are not respected for being promiscuous

When we talk about a man defending his honour, we mean that he is motivated to fight an opponent to demonstrate that he can beat a rival. When we talk about a woman defending her honour, we mean that she fights off unwanted suitors and that she defends her right to choose her lover. One…

The misconceptions that arise from pornography

Pornography provides boys with completely unrealistic images of women’s sexuality. This issue needs to be addressed by sex educators if boys are to have healthy relationships and find emotional happiness. If real life was like a porn movie, then porn would not be needed. In real life, men orgasm easily (on average within 2 minutes…

Arousal relies on a positive response to eroticism

We can experience a peak of sensation for various reasons. Take, for example, ticklishness. Someone could tickle our feet, our knees or under our armpit. We may reach a point where we don’t want further stimulation. We may even experience a peak of sensation or simply exhaustion from being over-stimulated. But such a sensation is…